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Even a Stone


DECEMBER. 2003
   

I was browsing through our bookshelves this morning and discovered a book I had forgotten we had. It is entitled Even A Stone Can Be A Teacher: Learning and Growing From The Experiences Of Everyday Life by Sheldon Kopp.

 
 










" I  A F F I R M  T H A T
T O  G R O W  A S  A
T E A C H E R ,  I  M U S T
R E M A I N  A N
A L E R T  L E A R N E R."
Eric Maisel
















" N O T H I N G  I S
I N T E R E S T I N G  I F
Y O U  A R E  N O T
I N T E R E S T E D."
Helen MacInness

















" S O M E B O D Y  I S
        B O R I N G  M E . . .
I  T H I N K  I T  I S
M E."
Dylan Thomas








 


I am an advocate of learning from everyday life experiences. I like the quote, "when the student is ready to learn, the teacher will appear". If I hold the intention to learn, I pay attention to those experiences and what they can teach me.

The title of the book put me into a retrospective journey. I have memories of stones from my boyhood. I had a sling shot and learned quickly not to shoot stones in the direction of the house after I broke a kitchen window and suffered the consequences.

I hit many stones over the pasture fence using an old baseball bat and imagining myself as my favourite baseball slugger. The bat became so pitted and splintered from repeated contact with stones that it finally had to be thrown away.

One day I walked down our gravel driveway to collect the mail. The driveway was scattered with many stones of varying sizes. One stone stood out because of its irregular shape and multi-colours. It was very pretty.

I have always had a good imagination and I immediately saw the stone as being a precious gem with magical powers. The grove of trees by the driveway became an army of barbarians intent upon stealing the precious gem.

I would be the hero! I would protect that very special stone and prevent the barbarians from gaining magical powers that they would only use to evil ends. I felt a surge of strength knowing that "right" was on my side.

I blasted those poor trees with stone after stone, sometimes picking up whole handfuls and hurling them all at once in order to hit as many trees as possible. I imagined the groans of pain as countless barbarians crumpled into the dust.

After the dust, and the leaves, finally settled, I surveyed the field of battle with great satisfaction. I had, indeed, saved the day as well as the precious stone. I had crushed the enemy single-handedly.

I thought it best to take that stone and put it in a special and very safe place. I reached to pick it up, my hand flexing into a grip that anticipated the hardness of a stone. To my horror, the "stone" oozed through my fingers and I immediately realized what it was. A chicken had been pecking away on the driveway that morning.

An important lesson about learning is that it keeps you humble.


 
     
 
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